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Gather 'round the open fire for Chimneyside Chats - a monthly feature with holiday stories from our favorite artists. See what's in their stockings this year as they reminisce on Christmas memories, share their favorite recipe and more! Here's what singer/songwriter Heather Avalon had to say:
A fun little holiday story/tradition in my family that I love is one of my grandmother and her immense love for gift giving.
Back when my cousins and I were kids, my dad and my aunt used to explicitly tell my grandmother to only get the kids one gift each year for Christmas as they didn’t want her spending too much money, going overboard and ultimately spoiling the grandchildren. My grandmother took that and decided to make it her own.
Each and every year she would be sure to only give us one “present”. She would take a big cardboard box and stuff it to the brim with as many presents as she could, and then wrap the big box so it looked like we only got one gift. The first year this happened, my dad and my aunt were happy when they first saw the three nicely wrapped boxes for myself and my two cousins because that is exactly what they had asked: only to get the kids one gift each. Of course it was a shock when all three of us started tearing open the gigantic boxes to find 15-20 individually wrapped little gifts that we got to open as well.
This then became a tradition of my dad and my aunt telling my grandma, “Okay Mom, seriously only one gift per kid this year for Christmas”, and without fail every single year we each got one big box with loads of little toys all individually wrapped inside.
This story/tradition warms my heart every single time I think about it because it really goes to show how caring and giving family can be even when you’re doing something you’re told not to do. I hope to one day carry this tradition on to honour my grandma and the kind, amazing, lovely human being she was.
I truly believe Christmas is a time for showing those you love that you love them and as we come up on the holiday season this year, and reflecting on memories made, this will sadly be the first Christmas I spend without my grandma and my dad as they both passed this year. It’s memories like these that will live on forever and hopefully be passed down to family who didn’t get to meet them. This Christmas I will be honouring my loved ones who aren’t with me anymore by reminiscing and reflecting on memories like these, because, as corny as it sounds, time is always fleeting, but memories last a lifetime. I will always hold memories like these near and dear to my heart, especially around the holiday season.
Each and every year she would be sure to only give us one “present”. She would take a big cardboard box and stuff it to the brim with as many presents as she could, and then wrap the big box so it looked like we only got one gift. The first year this happened, my dad and my aunt were happy when they first saw the three nicely wrapped boxes for myself and my two cousins because that is exactly what they had asked: only to get the kids one gift each. Of course it was a shock when all three of us started tearing open the gigantic boxes to find 15-20 individually wrapped little gifts that we got to open as well.
This then became a tradition of my dad and my aunt telling my grandma, “Okay Mom, seriously only one gift per kid this year for Christmas”, and without fail every single year we each got one big box with loads of little toys all individually wrapped inside.
This story/tradition warms my heart every single time I think about it because it really goes to show how caring and giving family can be even when you’re doing something you’re told not to do. I hope to one day carry this tradition on to honour my grandma and the kind, amazing, lovely human being she was.
I truly believe Christmas is a time for showing those you love that you love them and as we come up on the holiday season this year, and reflecting on memories made, this will sadly be the first Christmas I spend without my grandma and my dad as they both passed this year. It’s memories like these that will live on forever and hopefully be passed down to family who didn’t get to meet them. This Christmas I will be honouring my loved ones who aren’t with me anymore by reminiscing and reflecting on memories like these, because, as corny as it sounds, time is always fleeting, but memories last a lifetime. I will always hold memories like these near and dear to my heart, especially around the holiday season.
Grandma and I on Christmas Day opening one of the gifts from the massive box she gave to me and my cousins, circa 2005 |
Learn more about Heather Avalon and listen to the song she chose for our Chimneyside Chats playlist!
"White Christmas" by Bing Crosby